When is the right time?

I shared with you some very important news in my life, something that happened a while ago, and it changed my life perspective.

When events of great impact occur in our life we have two options of how to handle it, we work on it and move on, or we put it aside and ignore it, keeping it inside.

I decided to work on it. I didn't ignore me, I dedicated myself to feel and live my emotions. I let them take over and show me how I felt,and I did not skip any stage of my process.

I stopped feeling lonely because I filled my emptiness with self-love! I was disconnected from who I was, I didn't feel my own identity, but little by little I learned a lot about myself. In my ME moments, I found myself and listened to me. I realized that I was always there for me, but I only stopped looking.

My values have always been the same and the life I have is the reflection of what I like. My family, my friends, my stability, my profession, and my peace are my priorities.

Many times I doubted myself, what I was, what I have achieved with hard work and who I could become. I didn't feel good about myself and, although I wasn't alone, I felt in a hole, isolated from everything.

Letting go can be difficult, letting go and accepting that it's okay is one of the most painful processes but in the end, after the pain, you always find what you knew you would find, peace.

Life acts in mysterious ways, you can never predict what will happen or who you will run into... you just have to be open to change, understand that happiness is moments and those moments are lasting when you have peace with yourself! Because it all starts internally.

Maybe I have already said it too much before, self-love is very important! But is just that there are many misconceptions about couple love in "looking for your other half" NO! We are complete beings looking to share our lives with someone special. "My duty is to make the other person happy" NO! Happiness comes internally and then it is shared. However, doing things to make the special person happy is different, it is a contribution to happiness.

No one knows more than yourself what is going on inside you, don't let anyone make you believe the opposite, unless it's a qualified professional. You will hear thousands of opinions about when is the perfect time to make a decision, things like "you should have done it sooner", "you should have tried harder", "you should have waited longer". None of that exists, I personally believe that you are the only one capable of discovering when it's time to move forward, stay or stop. Forget about others, you are the owner of your life, your feelings, and your future.

Live your stages, enjoy who you are and take control of your life! Your time is measured by you when you look internally and decide if you are ready or not to move forward.

Key.